You sit at home day after day licking those huge gaping wounds and nursing a very bruised ego that the break up left in you. The more you think about it, the more depressed you become – life is so unfair! If only you could get your ex boyfriend back again, then life would be happy again.
You ex is really not interested in how upset you are right now, so don’t even think of making contact with him. Maybe under normal circumstances he would feel the utmost pity for you, but right now so soon after the break up – I don’t think so.
There is no doubt that you also said some really awful things to him and it is for this reason that I tell you not to contact him. He is hurt and angry right now and couldn’t care less that you’re crying your eyes out, so just leave him entirely alone.
To get your ex boyfriend back, you are going to have to figure out ways to soften his impression of you, so concentrate on these things instead. You can keep yourself busy by getting some retail therapy – a new wardrobe of clothing will do wonders for your bruised ego.
You’ll become enthusiastic when you see how great you look in your new clothes, your enthusiasm will snowball, and you’ll get a new hairstyle as well. Not only do you look great now, but you are feeling a whole lot better inside too. You aren’t so depressed anymore and have loads of confidence.
You can’t waste your new look by sitting at home, so go out with your friends and have some well-deserved fun. You will bump into your ex at some point – this is inevitable. However, you look so stunningly different to when he last saw you, that he is completely gob-smacked!
Your efforts have not been wasted – there is a very good chance that you’ll get your ex boyfriend back.