You don’t need to be a poet or author to write a romantic love letter. All you need is a pen, piece of paper and your heart. Find a location that is peaceful with a calming view. If you like, make a delicious cup of coffee or tea. Turn on some soothing music and take a deep breath. Ahhh.
Decide what type of letter you want to write.
a. You have a stable, loving relationship, but want to spice up your love life.
b. You feel that you are losing touch with him emotionally, and want to reconnect.
c. You want him to know how much you still love and appreciate him.
d. You broke up with him and you’re hoping to mend the relationship.
e. He doesn’t know that you admire him from afar.
Now that you are clear about the purpose of the letter, think about what you what to say and how he will react to your words. Now begin writing from your heart, don’t edit the stream of words that will pour from your soul. Forget about grammar; forget about being polite, neat or perfect. Open your heart and let its contents for him flow magically through your fingers. Scrape the bottom of your heart with honest, truth, and passion. As you are writing pay attention to your senses, remember what smells like, and look like. How does it feel when he touch you? What do you see when you look into his eyes? Don’t forget sound. Is his voice a rich, baritone or smooth and calming? What do you want him to feel, so that he will be inspired to re-read your letter over and over again?
Love themes to write about.
50 Reasons why you love him.
Describe in intimate detail what you were thinking and feeling about him the first time the two of you made love.
Write the story of how you first met.
Give him 10 reasons why he is the sexiest man alive to you.
What are you addicted to about him? The way he smiles, kisses, laughs squint his eyes?
Write about when he proposed to you.
Think about special events that are frozen in time in your heart and unthaw his memory of how beautiful and passionate your relationship is.
Quote the words from your favorite love song and tell how it relates to your relationship together.
If you are trying to meet him, write a funny, interesting riddle. Tell him that he needs to contact you for the answer to the riddle.
Things to avoid writing in a love letter.
Previous arguments or negative topics.
Don’t mention ex’s of any sort or in any manner. This is strictly about you and him only.
It’s your call, but even thanking him for money in a love letter is questionable. Let him know that you love him for him regardless of financial awards.
If you don’t have an on-going relationship, it’s not wise to offer sex in a letter. Why write a letter when too much cleavage and a micro-mini skirt will do.
Don’t pretend to be someone else. The danger in this is that he when he discovers that you are not who you say you are, he may be immediately turned off.
Don’t exaggerate. Truth can be soul-stirring, and touching.
Where to place the love letter
You can place it in his underwear drawer
Near his toothbrush.
In his briefcase or duffle bag
Underneath his pillow
Next to his coffee cup
Tape it to the steering wheel in his car.
Mail it to him (even if you live together)
Think of something he does daily when he is in a good mood. Be creative.